PHILOSOPHYThe Sleep Sense Philosophy
The Sleep Sense™ Method
While most books and programs dealing with child sleep issues take philosophical stands (based largely around the issue of “crying it out”), I believe that your child’s sleep is more important than my personal views on this subject. That’s why the Sleep Sense™ Method places so much emphasis on accommodating different parenting styles. The bottom line is that you, as a parent, need to be comfortable with your new sleep plan in order for it to work for your child.
My approach to improving your child’s sleep is pretty simple:
I’ll give you honest information about WHY sleep is so important for your child’s well-being.
This will give you all the motivation you need to make changes to your child’s sleep habits.
I’ll lay out an easy-to-follow, step-by-step plan that lets you make some choices about what is the right approach for your child.
All children are different, and nobody knows your child better than you do. I encourage you to use your knowledge of your child to customize his or her sleep plan. SAMPLE PLAN EXAMPLE
I’ll show you how to measure success.
No, you shouldn’t expect your child to sleep 12 uninterrupted hours on the first night — although it does happen! I’ll tell you what you should expect along the way.
On average it takes about two weeks to meet sleep goals set regarding night time sleep…
Sometimes three weeks for toddlers, depending on how spirited they are.
When it comes to nap goals, on average it can take about 4-6 weeks to see desired results.
Consistency is the key to meeting all sleep goals.
A little note about the “crying” question:
Crying is your child’s way of protesting change, and you can expect that making changes to their sleep habits will result in some protest. That’s why I’m always sure to tell parents that my program will most likely involve at least some amount of protest on the child’s part.
Please understand that I will never ask you to leave your child to cry alone, nor will I ask you to ignore their cries. The reason that the Sleep Sense™ Method is so effective is that it lets you develop a plan that you feel comfortable with, based on what you know about your child.
If you have any questions at all about the philosophy behind the Sleep Sense™ Method, please don’t hesitate to ask!